There are fee-only financial planners. Go to the NAPFA website, http://napfa.org/ , and click on "Find an Advisor." This will give you a shot at consolidating and making sense of your various accounts.
That's the good news. It should help you avoid advisors who are commission-maximizers. The NAPFA members that I have met have a serious interest in financial planning and are true students, looking for the best ways to help people with their financial planning. Like most planners, however, they have a significant bias toward high-net worth individuals.
This isn't a moral failing. It is a response to an unpleasant reality. Most people are very reluctant to pay for professional services. The same person who won't pay $2,000 for professional services/consultation will mysteriously accept paying a $5,000 commission. I don't understand it. Professional planners don't understand it. But that's the way it is. Significantly, people with a more money than most often recognize the value and need for professional services more than other people do.
Your question is at the opening wedge of something I see coming--- an unbundling of asset management (what we do at AssetBuilder) and financial planning. Do the unbundling and you can cut the cost of asset management dramatically and allow economies of scale to be passed through as lower fees.
Scott